House rules
DateInOz is a free noticeboard for adults. It is run from Malaysia, open worldwide, and focused on Oceania and Asia. These are the limits that keep the public pages usable. The longer version is in the terms.
Adults
Every member is 18 or over. Do not post a child, and do not ask anyone for a photo of a child. A profile that looks under 18 comes down.
Photos
The first photo has to show your face. Swimwear and a shirtless photo are fine, at the beach or anywhere else, and they can go up on their own. Underwear or lingerie with nothing over it waits for a person to say yes or no, and so does a photo the checker is unsure about. Nothing in that queue is public. Nudity is refused: genitals, female nipples, bare buttocks, sex acts, explicit poses, and see-through clothing. No children and no violence. If another adult is in the frame, cover their face.
Money and sexual services
Do not advertise escorting or any paid sexual service. Do not ask a member for money, and do not offer money. Usernames, profile text, and the public rooms are checked for that. Private messages are not word-filtered. If a private message crosses the line, including one that asks you for cash, report it.
Everyone else
No threats, no pile-ons, and no racist or obscene posts. Do not use the site to advertise a business or to drag people off to another app.
Reports
On a profile, open More, then Report, and pick the closest reason. One report is a signal, not a verdict. The desk acts when several different members describe the same problem. A stack of reports from related accounts counts as one campaign, and those accounts can be closed for misusing the button.
Practical steps for your own meetings are on the safety tips page.